Today has been a good day, I’m laughing because my kids are clowning my post title. Have you ever been today years old when you discovered something, said NO MORE, Leveled UP, etc. I’ve been stepping out of my comfort zone and making some big girl moves, or mommy moves as I like to call them. Moves that will soon be revealed, #VictoriaSecrets.
Let me start out by saying Happy Last Month of the Year!!!! I want to talk about what I’ve learned in 2018 and why it’s taken me up to the last month to make changes.
- BIG CHOP: I cut my hair for the last time in December 31, 2017 and slapped on a wig. LOL I feel like I need to retire the wigs and rock what the Lord gave me. I’ve been meaning to try those kinky curly clip-ins if you’ve tried any please comment on the best products. I don’t want to buy anything and regret it. But I won’t be cutting my hair anytime soon. I’m embracing the growth.
- BLOG: I launched my blog, this is actually the third blog, but the longest standing one. If you want to read some content head over to thesoulmatch and abeautifultongue. At the beginning of the year I decided to dedicated myself to the process of writing and giving a more indepth look into things I like, love and or dislike, and so here’s this blog. I’m glad you’ve made you way here and I hope to inspire you all the more in the year to come. Here’s to good content, consistency and longevity.
- BABY ON THE BRAIN: At the beginning of the year, I was not thinking about having more kids. Three was an odd number but it worked. It wasn’t until this last month that I was having baby thoughts and dreams. I’ll just leave it there 😉 I was discussing maybe two more with my hubby. Our kids of course is not having it but they’ll be just fine. I think I’m open to the thought of more kids because it’s cuffing season, or maybe I’m getting old, lol (( my kids are so nosy, reading as I type, I’ll revisit this topic on another post)). HAHAHA!
- BRANDING: I’ve gotten comfortable with coming from behind the scene. I’m so good a helping others, whether with their business, brand, logo, you name it, I was willing to help and even cheer them on as they went after their dreams. In October I posted “It’s about time you give yourself the promotion, attention, encouragement, respect, love, you’ve been giving everyone else.” I came to this realization after helping yet another person and getting burned. I’m always looking for the best in people but if they show you their bad side, don’t try to beautify it. People are human, I get it, but I’ve learn to stop going harder for others than I do for myself, so this year (well towards the end), I said NO MORE! No more to the wrong stuff, the wrong company, wrong investments, and yes to branding myself and my business.
BOLD and BEAUTIFUL: This year I’ve learned that I’m One Hot Momma! I’m not cocky it’s facts, ha. I’m confident in my skin. I love who I am, a wife, a mom and a boss. I enjoy reinventing myself from time to time (read the post). I am not going to dim my light because it’s shinning too bright and I don’t expect you to dim yours. People will either love and support you or fall all the way back and each will be a blessing. Each day I’m learning to walk confidently, with my head held high and march to the beat of my own drum. I hope you will do the same, if you knew how amazing you are you would be marching too.
BOOK and BIRTHDAY WISHES: Soooo I’m planning my Birthday Celebration and BOOK Signing and I’m so EXCITED, Get Your Tickets. I have so much to share with you all in this book, it will be juicy, it will share my challenges, how I’ve overcome, me getting married young, adulting and becoming a mother and other interesting things. I’m so excited! Please grab your tickets, it will be in Southern California for those wondering. Location will be given when you register.
Sat, January 19, 2019
1:00 PM – 6:00 PM PST